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writes:help me.I feel so terrible, I've done a terrible thing.My boyfriend and me have had our share of problems.. I feel like he ignores me and tries to control me. I have posted questions about our relationship on this website before. Last weekend, I was on holiday. I work 5-6 and sometimes 7 days a week, and I wanted to spend some time with him, so I booked some time off work. He told me that he was going to spend the weekend with me, and then at the last minute, decided to go off with his mates for the weekend.I guess I was angry, but I went on a chat room site, and I met someone. I've been emailing him ever since, and we're getting on really well.. He has a girlfriend as well, and she's 14 years older than him. He's unhappy, too..I really wanna meet this guy.. Is it wrong? What should I do? Can I avoid hurting anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): I agree with Aunty Nic and Eddie here. If that your current bf is treating you like crap, break it off. There's no further reason for you to be emotionally abused and controlled by anyone like that. Second, if you want to go meet this guy, do it through the proper channels - hence breaking up with your current bf.
When you actually go meet this new guy however, a word of caution. How well do you know him? If you only chatted with him online, then I would suggest you bring a friend with you to go meet him, or at the very least, go to a public place like a cafe, NOT close to your home.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (26 November 2006):
 It's simple. If you're unhappy, as you say, leave your boyfriend and move on. If you're really interested in this stranger from "computerland", feel free to see him. Make sure he's single though before you start. In other words, end your current relatioships before you go on to another one.
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