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writes: I am 12 years old and I need some advice badly. My boyfriend found out that I've started my periods and is telling everyone. What shall I do?
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reader, mr shlong  +, writes (21 January 2008):
 tell him he is not funny or bigive done the same n now im single
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reader, nikkla +, writes (10 May 2005):
If he is gonna make fun of you, give him as good as it gets. Don't let him make fun of you! Starting your periods isn't a big deal really,tho at least you will mature faster than him! I used to get made fun of for not startin my periods but I just laughed nd turned away! There's someone just around the corner worse off than you. cya n a hope it helps huni x x x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2005): Dear My Boyfriend, Dump him.If he's just going to break your heart,he isn't worth it. And what's so bad about you having periods?You're at the age where it's common for girls to start menstruating.It's the circle of life.Why does he think it's so unusual that you have it when girls all over the world do?Best wsihes,Sarah
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reader, lil-haz +, writes (28 April 2005):
 hiya, I'm only 12 myself, nearly, 13 and I suggest that you ditch him quickly! Else he might say something you might regret. Love is all about trust. Can you really trust this guy? I think you should talk to him, if he's the kind that only shows off with his mates rather than listen to you, then I say move on with your life, girl! Life's too short to waste it on smelly boys like this guy!!! lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2005): First of all, ask yourself, now that he's done this to you, do you want as your boyfriend? If so, then ask him to stop it or there will be consequences affecting your relationship and that you really don't like what he's saying about you. If this doesn't work, chuc him off the boat sister! >:)
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (26 April 2005):
 Do you really want a "boyfriend" who gets such enjoyment out of making you unhappy? He sounds like an irritating little weasel who's big-noting himself at your expense.It's not surprising that he's behaving this way. Most boys and quite a few men feel squeamish about menstruation. This is your dear little weasel's way of dealing with his discomfort.Ditch the weasel, dearie. When he grows up a bit and realises that embarrassing you in your moment of greatest vulnerability was a terrible injustice (in other words, he was mean to you when there was no reason to be), then you can reconsider him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2005): I know that that can be embarrassing...trust me! But if you show that it is bothering you he is just going to keep doing it! That's just the way lots of guys work! Just don't let it bother you...think of it this way: getting your period is your moment of becoming a woman. Dont be ashamed of it! If we didnt get our period there wouldn't be babies and if there weren't babies none of us would be alive, including your boyfriend. Don't worry about it, it will die down when they see that is doesn't bother you. Just take a deep breath and you'll be fine. Embarrassment happens sometimes, but you're going to learn that it's not really as bad as it seems. Good luck babe!
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