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My boyfriend won't give up his friendship with her so how do I stop being jealous?

Q.   My boyfriend has a lot of friends who are girls. This doesn't bother me in the least...except when it comes to one specific girl. I try not to let it get to me, but I am starting to feel extremely jealous of this one in particular and frustrated ...

A.   6 January 2010: Let him do what he wants. If you show that you don't trust him, he might take it the wrong way. If he proves to you that you can trust him, I would let him do whatever he wants. But if it comes to a point when you feel he isn't being completely ... (read in full...)

What do you do when you fall in love and they don't feel the same?

Q.   So....what do you do if you fall in love with someone and they don't feel the same? Says he just got out of a bad relationship and isn't ready for all that...YET! But he hugs and kisses you all the time and shit...but wants to be friends right ...

A.   6 January 2010: If I were you, i would just avoid trying to take it any farther. Just wait it out, and if it doesn't go anywhere, then move on. You might be ready for something he isn't, but don't worry. It's possible that he's interested, but he might be telling ... (read in full...)

Am I too protective of my girlfriend?

Q.   ok so some how everyday theres always some how i get upset or pissy about what my girlfriend says or does its like always something about a guy just little things to but it still pisses me off ever sense she cheated on me but not a big deal just 2 ...

A.   6 January 2010: I really don't blame you, at all. I'd probably be protective too. Once someone breaks that trust you have, it takes a long time to gain it back. When my boyfriend cheated on me, I couldn't trust him again. And even though he told me he loved me, and ... (read in full...)

Is he too scared to come over while my parents are away?

Q.   My parents are going away for the holidays and I'm gonna be home alone for a week. I've mentioned this to my boyfriend and we joked about me inviting him over for dinner one day and in the end I promised him to invite him over as soon as they're ...

A.   28 December 2009: I think you should talk to him about it. Maybe he isn't ready to go that far with someone. Or maybe he's telling the truth. You aren't going to find out unless you talk to him about it. ... (read in full...)

Should I write to apologise for the past to my boyfriend's ex?

Q.   In the summer, I was working away and had a very strong connection with a guy who was recently engaged. Over the summer months that we were working together 24/7 he began telling me he didn't have strong feelings for his fiance anymore, and he ...

A.   28 December 2009: If I were you, I would probably apologize for everything. Being her, in a situation like that, can be very hard to deal with. If a man gives you his word, and breaks it like that, it can be heartbreaking. This woman was getting cheated on, and you ... (read in full...)

My bestfriend can't make up his mind if he loves me or not!

Q.   My best male friend told me he loved me, then the next day he told me he was unsure, i thought he said he was unsure about it because he was worried about my reaction if i loved him back, i told him how i felt; that i had strong feelings for him and ...

A.   28 December 2009: Haha, that's a guy for ya. If he doesn't know what he feels, and says he loves you one day, but doesn't the next. He doesn't love you. If he really truly loved you, he would tell you and there wouldn't be any questions asked about it. A guy will ... (read in full...)

I want to ask my friend to be my boyfriend!

Q.   ok. now there is this guy who i like. I thought i lost him but he broke up with his girlfriend. First of all i knew that he liked me alot before and he kept on flirting with me. I wasnt ready for a relationship that time because i broke up with my ...

A.   28 December 2009: If you really like him and want to be with him, go for it. What's the worst he can say, no? There's more boys in the world, and you'll find the right one eventually. When I was younger, I always would have one of my good friends go talk to him for ... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and pregnant but I'm afraid that my mom will want nothing to do with me....please help

Q.   Okay so im kinda new at this "advice" thing so please take it easy on me........okay so my bf and i have been together for going on 11 months and one week after my birthday on 2-28 i broke my virginity..later we had sex again and started to do it ...

A.   27 December 2009: I don't know why you would want to get pregnant at the age of 15. Babies are a huge responsibility. Your boyfriend might be ready, but you're still young. You're still in high school and have a lot of growing up to do, unlike your boyfriend who has ... (read in full...)

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