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writes:I'm having some serious relationship issues right now. I've had crushes my entire life and I know that they've all been just crushes and nothing more, but this one person I met... I've never felt this way about anyone else. I seriously think I might be in love for the first time. I get butterflies in my stomach when I think about her and when someone upsets her I want to beat them up. She's the most beautiful person I've ever seen and I just want to be able to hold her hand and kiss her and tell her how much I love her. I was ready to confess my feelings to her, but then she just started going out with someone else that she met the other weekend and I'm absolutely crushed. The worst part... the person she's going out with now is one of my friends. My friend had no idea I had these feelings so I'm not mad at my friend at all, but I'm just hurt that someone else ended up with her and not me and I know that's an incredibly selfish thought, but that's how I feel. I hang out with the two of them all the time and the three of us are great friends now, but it's hard for me every time they kiss around me.I'm willing to let this girl go if she'll be truly happiest with my friend, but I have to admit that it's still a little upsetting since I have never felt this way about anyone else.I'm just so confused right now and I don't know what I should do?
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reader, muffy +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Well hun,all you can do is be supportive of your friend.If he makes her happy, then you should be happy too.If they end up not being together, then let her know how you feel.Open up your heart to her so she knows her options.Who knows,maybe she had the same feelings for you too but was to scared to tell you.If you truly want to get over her then distance yourself from the situation.I hope everything works out for you sweetie.If you need anything let me know.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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