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writes: Hi,I'm 18 years old and now studying in university. I have problem with my close friend who I have known for 4 years when we in grade 9. Now we are in different faculty.At first we still keep in touch, but recently when I met him at university he always walks away from me without saying "hi". Even though I try to call him, he doesn't answer my phone.What should I do? He is my best best friend and what he had done to me was really bad. Help me please!!!
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reader, becky05 +, writes (18 July 2005):
Yes, what hes done is rather bad.
Hes probably very busy with his studies and has made new friends on his course that are taking up his time.
If you get a chance to talk to him tell him how you feel.
This often happens with friends when they have different lives.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2005): One of two things happened here:
1. You somehow offended your friend and you are not aware of and he isn't telling you. Which is sad because friendships are based on honesty and respect.Ask him if you said or did, peeved him off.
2. Or maybe..he's decided that he simply doesn't want to be friends anymore and doesn't have the "balls" to be upfront about it. If this is the case, then he's not a good friend anyways...he's being disrespectful to you and acting very immature.
If he's not talking to you...you have the right to let him know how his "shunning" has confused and hurt you. Send him an e-mail. If he responds ..great! If not..leave him alone and get on with your life. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2005): Simple answer...Just ask him why he stopped talking to you? Let him know you are confused and wondering what's up. If he gets evasive and can't give a straight answer..then just leave him alone, for awhile. Go find other friends..don't wrack you brain trying to figure what this guy is thinking. But give him an option -tell him when he's ready to talk, about what's bothering him, he can contact you. I had a g/f in high school who ignored many of her friends suddenly...we found out later she had a ton of family problems that she was too embarrassed to talk about. Sometimes friends are having "their own issues" and need space from friends. Give it awhile and see if he trys to get in touch. In the meantime-have fun, think positive and enjoy life. Good luck!
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