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writes:The past few days i've been really upset because my close friend who i spoke to a lot on msn and was with him everyday. Someone else has come into the picture and they always speek on msn and i hardly get spoken to anymore and when i ask if me and my close friend want to go out he will either say he has plans with the other person or he will include them in our plans. When i want a day out with my friend. I asked him if he wanted to come out yesterday and he said that he was coming aswell. So in the morning my friend rang me and asked if i was coming.. we were talking for a while and he said he wasnt going and it was because his friend wasn't gonna go. and my friend didn't want to come out with just me. and this other person said "im obviously not wanted" .. That annoyed me because I'm the one who's felt like they've lost a friend not him. I'm the one who's been being ignored, not him!. He has had all the attention. My friend was giving sympathy to this other person and was saying . you are wanted. What about me!? I got no sympathy or anything and i've been upset the past couple of days because i've been left out. What can I do. I've explained to both of them. My friend said that his friend feels like he isn't wanted there and told me not to say anything to him. But i've said that i felt left out and he is wanted there i just got spoken to less and i felt like s___. I'm not having his friend feeling sorry for himself when i'm the one who's suffering. Help me please? What can I do. None of them are speeking to me now when i've tried to sort things out. But I shouldn't because I haven't done anything. They should be the ones trying to comfort me. Not the other way round.
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reader, Jolie  +, writes (24 March 2008):
 So ....I passes through this S*** !! The thing was that they were jalouse ..... did you ever found out that they talked something behind your back?? It's hard to accept the fact of why you're being left out. And sometimes you just stay quiet and think of what did you do wrong!! Maybe there is a reason why.....I found it hard to find new friends coz i dont trust anyone!! When you are good with your friends and you respect them sometimes they just spit in your face and you wonder why!! Some times you even say sorry to them when they are suppose to be sorry!! Try to talk to them even if its not youre fault .....or else find new friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso. His friend asked my friend do i go round everyday and my friend said said.. Not if i dont speek to her and his friend said.. well are u not gonna speek 2 her tomorrow then. In other words he dunt want me to go to my friends. and he dunt want me to be there.. So another thing there
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