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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I like the same guy as my best friend. She had a thing with him while she had a boyfriend this summer and she choose her boyfriend over "guy". She has told me to go out with guy since then, over and over again and I said no because I knew she had feelings for him still. But a couple weeks ago the guy texted me. And we started to hang out. He told me he really likes me and now I really like him. But my friend and her boyfriend broke up, so now she is mad at me for liking the guy. Well he started to talk to her of course and they said they still have feelings for each other. And he plans on asking her out. Him and I secretly hang out still so that must mean something. I don't want loose either of them,and I know I'm only like a sophmore in high school but that doesn't change anything. :( help
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reader, Thisdizzle +, writes (21 February 2011):
The way you've Played this has given you two options; lose both of them or one of them. You've entangled your self into a web of lies and manipulation fairly handily here. You need to decide who you want in your life, then force them into being open with you and the other party. If you need some help making a decision, here's some food for thought; He's just trying to get some wherever he can. If he ask your friend out, don't indulge him by having a relationship behind her back. That's treachery, simple as that.
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