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writes:hi,i'm 14 years old and my boyfriend is 17 he's always asking me if we could have sex but i'm afraid!!should i or not at this age? Reply to this Question
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reader, unique899 +, writes (15 September 2009):
 hmm lets see age diffrence
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reader, littlemissalf123 +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Honey drop him to the side, find a DECENT young man (that's right young man, someone who'll grow up and know how to provide for a woman) Don't let that boy (who must not have ben able to get a girl his own age so he's trying to prey on the younguns (yep, younguns people that will get him sent to jail if a pregnancy occurs) use you as a semen dump for a three minute joy ride on the "haha I got this girl's virginity, now I can split express". There are plenty of decent guys out there who know how to keep there pants on. I'm 15 and if some little boy (yep little boy, they walk around in fully developed bodies impersonating grown men) came to me with that it'd be all over (clink clink jail time) I'll be straight forward now, he just want you for the sex (which won't be that good) after that you might meet up a few times but once he gets it he'll have no respect for you. Didn't you ever watch that rapper guy's (can't think of his name) video with the girl's older boyfriend using her and leaving her??? Yeah, based on real life events.
And don't buy into the old "if you love me you'll do it. 1)Men don't really relate love and sex (didn't you watch THe Officer and the Gentlemen???) 2) If his own momma loved him she'd let him stick to her. And if he's saying your not even that good looking, then how is it that you're good looking enough for him to want to mess around with??...?????
That's my advice, hope it helps.
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reader, x-kitycatlok-x  +, writes (29 December 2008):
 Okay, I'm fourteen and I've had sex. Personally, I believe that as long as you're completely ready for it and have NO doubts at all (which doesn't seem possible if you're asking), then go for it. But make sure he's not pressuring you into it and don't EVER feel you HAVE to. It's your choice and it's a big decision to make. I don't regret making it. So if you feel ready and such, and are prepared for the possible consequences, go for it.
Wishing You The Best.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): Your b/f should be going after a girl he's own age then dating a young girl and pressuring her.
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (28 December 2008):
 you only lose your virginity once, do you really want him to be the one? and do you really want to lose it so soon? im 21 years old and still a virgin and so is my fience. theres nothing wrong with waiting.
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reader, the1st1 +, writes (28 December 2008):
no, i dont think you should. anything can happen for example, im 17 and decided not to wait and now i have a 4 month old daughter, and the worst part about it is that her father is 24 and isnt around and hasnt been since the day i found out. if he cant wait to have sex with you then he isnt worth it, trust me!!! being a single teen mother is HARD!
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reader, cloudnine-andbeyond +, writes (28 December 2008):
 if your not comfortable with it then dont do it. and dont feel pressured into doing it either. it's your choice and no one elses ok? he cant tell you when you should (and if he loves you he will respect your decision what ever it may be)
all the best to you
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2008): if your asking if you should..you really really shouldnt
your boyfriend shouldnt be asking you for sex at your age. find someone more respectfull to you.
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