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age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi,I'm always wondering whether he likes me or not. I'm not exactly infatuated with him, but he is not a bad catch and sometimes when I think about him my heart beats a little faster. He's funny, smart, decent-looking.We talk and he asks questions about what I like etc, sometimes it seems like he's interested. He makes me laugh and is always smiling unless it was a serious conversation. He says some things that seem as if he's dropping hints, and occasionally compliments me about something or other. At other times he seems entirely uninterested. It might be I'm reading too much into things, because he is real friendly with everyone else too although I have no idea what he says to other single girls.I don't know if I should ask him, because I'll be moving across the world in about 3 months. It seems pointless to ask because he mentioned he can't handle long-distance relationships and it might spoil our friendship. But if I don't ask I might regret sometime down the road.I should mention that I'm shy and a few years back when a guy courted me I could die from the embarrassment. Although I went out a few times with him, I was so ambiguous (oh yes I'm guilty of sending mixed signals too) that it must have scared him off. I think I'm more ready now for a relationship, but I'm not sure if I should ask? And any suggestions for a shy girl to ask a guy out?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your replies! I guess I shouldn't go for him. At the time when I was posting the question I was thinking along the lines of 'I just need to know'.Thank you very much anyway!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 April 2008):
 I believe you shouldn't go for this man. He said he can't handle long-distance, and You're leaving very soon anyways, aren't you?
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reader, Sweet111 +, writes (23 April 2008):
Just go 4 it... be yourself and be confident!!
Good luck!
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