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Mixed signals from this guy, should I ask?

Q.   Hi, I'm always wondering whether he likes me or not. I'm not exactly infatuated with him, but he is not a bad catch and sometimes when I think about him my heart beats a little faster. He's funny, smart, decent-looking. We talk and he asks ...

A.   23 April 2008: Just go 4 it... be yourself and be confident!! Good luck!... (read in full...)

How hard is it for him to ask me out if he really likes me??

Q.   Hi, there is this guy that I really like and I think the feeling is mutual but he sometimes gives off mixed signal which makes me very confused consequently, i tend to stop flirting or seem not interested in him because i dont wanna look stupid. I...

A.   3 February 2008: Why do you feel you should wait for him?? If you ended up snoggin you would have thought the feeling is mutual, why not ask him out?... (read in full...)

How can I stop craving sex with much older men??

Q.   Could you please advise on my current practice of having sex with older men. I have a boyfriend my own age with good sex but I crave sex with much older men, They are usually business men passing through and I go to their hotels for seedy sex, I'm ...

A.   25 December 2007: You've got to decide what's most important to you, your boyfriend, or the "darker side", which to be fair to me, you sound pretty young to be getting up to that kind of thing. If you think that the partnership isn't worth fighting for then I think ... (read in full...)

We're 3 girls and boys who meeting to eat out. I like one of the girls but only met her once before. Any ideas how I can get to know her more and get a date?

Q.   3 girls, 3 boys. i like one of the girls. met only once before but talk online often. were meeting all together to eat out and maybe watch a film. any ideas how i can talk to her more, maybe get her number, date? i like her alot! thanks...

A.   23 December 2007: Yer I agree with the advice, flirt and stuff and see what happens... If at first nothing, then leave it for the time being... but next time you're online, just before you have to go, just say something like "i've got to go but is it ok to text you?... (read in full...)

I really want a bf but boys only ever notice my friend.

Q.   I have this friend who is stunning, confident and flirty and all the boys fancy her. Trouble is, they don't notice me. And she can be a bit slutty too. Last night she had a party, there were two hot guys there and , surprise surprise, she spent th...

A.   23 December 2007: I really don't think there's much you can do, if you're not confident, you need to work on it, life's too short, you really need to be confident in this life... it's not you know, its who you know... the more confident you are the more people you'll ... (read in full...)

I feel so depressed and I have feelings for my teacher, and I can't tell my Mum

Q.   hi i have depression and used to hurt myself bit i dont anymore. im on medication for my depression but it still doesnt seem to be getting much better, i think it has made my anxiety worse aswell. my mum knows about it but i cant bring myself to ...

A.   23 December 2007: yeah, I'm not sure either, perhaps he would have to respect your confidentiality, I'm not sure but I'm sure if you spoke to him you'd find out... maybe it would be worth keeping the fact that you used to hurt yourself to yourself for the 1st time... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin with low self esteem, all my friends are in relationships but me, how do I find a boyfriend?

Q.   im 23 soon to be 24, ive never had a boyfriend,i was kind of seeing this guy and then it finished as i would not sleep with him untill i was sure. im still a virgin, all i can see in myself is im fat and ugly even tho my friends say im not fat or ...

A.   19 December 2007: Hi, I'm a guy in the same position as you, although be it a year younger. Its not something i'm proud to say, but there will come a time when things will change. It seems I have the same qualities as you... you seem to be as unconfident about ... (read in full...)

I feel so depressed and I have feelings for my teacher, and I can't tell my Mum

Q.   hi i have depression and used to hurt myself bit i dont anymore. im on medication for my depression but it still doesnt seem to be getting much better, i think it has made my anxiety worse aswell. my mum knows about it but i cant bring myself to ...

A.   16 December 2007: It's not going to be easy which ever way you tell them, you just have to be confident and although it wont be easy, it's very important if you can get someoneto share your problems with. Trust me, you're not alone, and if you want to talk to some of ... (read in full...)

I like someone who's working on my house. Do guys like it when the woman makes the first move?

Q.   This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment. Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number? He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about i...

A.   16 December 2007: I think you should definately go for it! Guys can fear rejection too... not all of us are as cocky and as confident as we'd like to think!... (read in full...)

When I met up with my online date things weren't so terrific. I still like him though but he seems to have lost his interest, what should I do to make him come back?

Q.   well, i met a boy over the internet, a few months ago, then we started dating, he looked really hot in his pictures and had a great personality, and he only lived a hour away in the same country. so me and my mate went to meet him. he was so ...

A.   16 December 2007: I did the same when I met up with a girl i met on msn through a friend... we were almost on msn 24/7, there were never quiet periods, when we met however, I got really shy, there were awkward silences, and we didnt hit it off like i hoped we ... (read in full...)

I have a huge crush on him and can't get him out of my head, but I know it's not going to go anywhere...

Q.   theres this boy that i see now and again that i cant get out my head. theres just something about him that makes me feel all happy inside. well i use to see him then we started talking on msn again and we started seeing each other again. but he ...

A.   16 December 2007: You've got to really take a step back and ask yourself if this person is more important to you as a friend, or not in your life at all. Many people would agree that when friendship turns into love and romance, things can tend to go wrong, and when... (read in full...)

Do Men like it when Women make the first move?

Q.   This is a question for the men on the site. I like someones who's doing work on my house at the moment. Do men like it when woman make the first move...or ask for your number? He's back on tuesday and i want to do something about it then....

A.   16 December 2007: Yes! Yes! Yes! Obviously thats a personal opinion. ... (read in full...)

I feel so depressed and I have feelings for my teacher, and I can't tell my Mum

Q.   hi i have depression and used to hurt myself bit i dont anymore. im on medication for my depression but it still doesnt seem to be getting much better, i think it has made my anxiety worse aswell. my mum knows about it but i cant bring myself to ...

A.   16 December 2007: Hi, As a person who has symptoms of depression I can safely say you really need to talk to your mother... your family really are important for you... well they are to me... without them who knows what I'd be doing... When I feel the world ge... (read in full...)

Is it true that all men want is sex?

Q.   hi im 14, is it true that all men want is sex? is it true that they dont care about your personality, they only care about looks and sex? thats all they want from girls? ...

A.   8 October 2006: Hi... i think youre very young to be worried about this anyway...butnot all guys only want sex...we are a rare breed... you just have to find the one who'll do anything to make his gf happy... sex or no sex ... (read in full...)

Is she playing games with me, am I being paranoid or am I just ignoring the fact that she doesn't like me?

Q.   I met agirl a while ago while working on a farm in another country. She's just turned 17 and I'm turning 22. I fell madly in love with her straight away and I felt she liked me back, before I spoke to her I'd catch her looking at me or giggling at ...

A.   22 September 2006: The advice given is possibly true. There are however really nice teens aboutand not all of them are out to upset you. Yes,there is an age gap but age is just a number. As for most long distance relationships end in heartache... relationships ... (read in full...)

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