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writes: I met a guy just b4 i went to work india for 4 months he said hed wait for me. we were in constant contact while i was away then after 3 months he had a bad car accident, his business went downhill and his mother died. when i came back i met up with him. he was a litlle distant, he told me he loved me, but the next day he told me we should be friends until he sorts himself out. what should i do? forget about him or does he really mean what he says? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (25 April 2006):
 I think the odds are he means what he says. What happened to him would be enough to try anybody and seriously scramble his mind. It seems to me that he probably feels he has got alot on and cant give you his all until he has got back on his feet.
What you can do is limited in one-way but limitless in another. You can be there for him when he needs somebody to talk too and maybe help him relax a little by going out and doing stuff with him if that helps, with no strings attached. Ultimately the descision is yours, if you think this guy is worth the wait then give it a shot, if you dont then act accordingly. Hope that helps.
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reader, just-as-confused-as-u +, writes (25 April 2006):
 if your feelings are strong enough for him and he says he loves you then yes i think you should hang on in there by the sounds of it he's had a lot of upset in the past couple of years and sounds like he could do with some support with all that has happend to him he may have lost his self confidence give him a chance you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain GOOD LUCK HUN X
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