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writes: I met this guy at a party a while back. We immediatly started arguing then towards the end of the night got along great. We exchanged emails and flirted over msn and decided to hang out 1 on 1. So we went for food and shopping etc and when i dropped him off at home after a really awsome night of flirting, food, shopping etc leaned in and gave me a nice big .. handshake. Now i dont know wether he likes me or not? What do i do?
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reader, tux  +, writes (27 March 2006):
 a few more beers may help too. but chances are is he may have what the others have said. may have just didnt want to make that first move on the first date because of shyness or other reasons. He may have been smacked too many times for giving his dates that final goodnight kiss. so he goes with something safer.. a handshake.. it's still contact... while keeping a safe distance from any swinging arms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2006): I think that he does like you, so contact him and see what happens. I'd say that a, "a really awsome night of flirting, food, shopping etc" far outweighs the handshake, and that you owe it to youself to find out. Be positive, confident, optimistic (think about the fun you had together - not the handshake) when you contact him, and likely it will work out fine.
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reader, 40990 +, writes (25 March 2006):
From a guy's point of view, in particular personal experience, I have responded in the same way by shaking her hand...yeah...really dumb... but simply I was really shy. I'm ok when it comes to soicalising and flirting etc but when it comes to the crunch... help meeeee! Don't worry about it so much, he is probably really shy and is afraid to make a move on you. If you like him, maybe make a subtle move so he feels you are feeling the same way about him. Good luck with it.
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