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writes: My boyfriend recently got in touch with his Ex. After they spent a day together, the Ex made the offer to my boyfriend that he could spend a week at the Ex's house so my boyfriend could visit his family. I wasn't invited. I told my boyfriend that I was very upset over this and didn't want him to go because it wasn't right to spend private time with an Ex. My boyfriend doesn't seem to think this is wrong or care about my feelings at all. How should I handle this problem?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): Your boyfriend got in touch with his ex and now he wants to spend a week with her so he can 'visit his family' and you are not invited???? Why doesn't he stay with his family? Why wouldn't he want you to go with him???
I would not even bother with an ultimatum about this one, I would just end it.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (26 March 2006):
 You are right, he has no regards for your feelings. He should have conferred with you first, before he contacted his ex, to find out how you would feel. He is doing what he wants to do, and your opinion has no value to him.
You can't prevent him from going, but you can make it clear to him, you will not be waiting for him when he returns.
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reader, shania  +, writes (25 March 2006):
 I totally agree with smeedle,it is not acceptable for your boyfriend to stay at his ex's,what on earth is he playing at?...His ex definately wants him back and he is not exactly fighting her off.Another thing is,do you want a boyfriend who doesn't give a damn about your feelings?...would he like it if you went off for the day with your ex boyfriend?.......or stay a week at his house?...if he still insists that he will be staying with his ex and also spending time with her then i think you should dump him and look for another guy who will treat you with the respect that you deserve.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 March 2006):
 Tell your fella to stop playing games and either settle down with you or finish with you if he wants the ex back,
If he wants to visit his family then he can book into a bed and breakfast or travel lodge, staying with her is just not acceptable and tells me that she wants him back and he is thinking of it.
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