A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met a guy on Saturday night and we had a blast! I randomly met him because I randomly punched his butt as he walked by me. I didn't see his face or have any intention of meeting him, it was just something I did for fun =) Anyway, we ended up spending the remainder of the evening talking and flirting and eventually kissing. I think I am a pretty good judge of character and am very hesitant to let people get that close to me so soon so this whole interaction took me by great surprise. I am a very friendly person but I rarely ever meet people especially in a club that I want to keep in communication with. I've never gone home with someone I'd just met and I wouldn't ever do that. I'm only clarifying because people often get the wrong idea of me. I dropped him off at his place and he asked for my number. I gave it to him and he sent me a message the next day saying that it was awesome meeting me and he hoped that I was doing okay at work and wanted to make sure I'd gotten home safe the night before. I'm really only concerned because I had such a good time with him. That NEVER happens for me. Usually you run into the expected douchebag and go your separate ways. Do you all think he's going to get in contact with me? is his text the next day and no call for two days appropriate if we had an amazing time? Should I contact him? three day rule? hmmm...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Anonymous Female Writer! I think that's exactly what I needed to hear! I surely showed him I was interested and that's about all I should do! I will definitely give it some time and see what comes of it although it would be really nice if he contacted me again =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2012): I would say, wait on him now... let him pursue.
YOU punched him, thereby causing the introduction.
YOU dropped him off. He got your number, he sent an sms, now give him a few days to decide if he wants to get to know you better. If you contact him again, you are coming on strong, and he may get the wrong impression, especially how you met.
Take it slow, allow him to get to know the real you, and let his words and actions tell you how he really feels, not what you would like.
It does sound like you had a great time, you can look forward to more great times if you do things right.
Enjoy & Good Luck.
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