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female
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anonymous
writes:I'm in a "recycled" relationshipMeaning, we went out years ago and got back in touch recentlyAnd thought to give it another goIt's been about two weeks of talking and a couple dates.We even made out but nothing over a pg rating,But he's acting kinda wierd and if it was a new guy I would restrain myself from expressing feelings, because it's new But WE aren't new. Can I tell him I'm feeling afraid of him hurting me or will that make him run further?Thoughts? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2012): Thanks.
I just was surprised at how I have the sane feelings and I may be assuming
He does too ,
but I don't know that.
Patience is good advice :)
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female
reader, Okies  +, writes (6 March 2012):
would you tell a new guy you are afraid he will hurt you.. if yes then do it..
personally I don't think there is anything wrong with saying that.. but a more direct approach would be better
asking him what kind of relationship he wants with you. most guys will say nothing and get away with everything later on.. So ask him.. what is he hoping with this relationship..
He has changed and so have you.. 10 years is a long time.. he is a different person since you last knew him.. so don't take things for granted.
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