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writes:Men! why are they confusing, ok.. I am happy happy happy wid my boyf..4 years..we have ups and downs..but all good..!we both share the same best mate..he use to be my boyfs best pal..but now hes mine too! we have a laugh..and when i first met them 5 years ago (we have all grown up now..and in long term relationships!) when i first met them..the best mate asked me out..and then told everyone i asked him out..i didnt really know him that well then..ova the years we both know each other pretty well n rarley mention early days..BUT the thing is..last night..he was talkin about all the girls that have asked him out..and he said that hes never asked out a girl..and i jus laughed and said 'o really?!' because he has..ME?!..and then he said no you asked me out..n we had this little debate..we both agreed in the end that non of us asked out each other and it never happend..bt..he soooo did ask out me lol..i kno im 22..grown up and stuff..lol but man o man..i feel like chuckin eggs at him! hes wicked tho..and were all happy..but why dusnt he just admit it!..he asked me!? god bless guys n gals xx Reply to this Question
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Lucky lads...... ahem.... Anyway, is it really important who asked who? At the end of the day you're all happy, there's no issues here! x
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Do you have this much fun with your bf?
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (28 November 2007):
Either theres some miscommunication thats gone on, so thats why you both think each other asked each other out, OR he is lieing because hes embarrsed you said no, or maybe he feels weird that he asked out his now best mates gf?
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reader, SamuraiRick  +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Its amazing how two people can go through the same experience and still have a different memory about it. It’s like the classic movie Rashomon where differing points of view tell an entirely different story about the same event. In the end the truth is probably in the middle...maybe you both got to talking and discussed going out, and you really can't point out where the exact asking of the date took place.
In my past relationship with my wife I always had the better memory between the two of us. I can recall details about every single date we ever had, things we said and everything. While my wife whose memory not so good, would resort to putting things down in a journal to remember things. And even while she wrote things down, I would dispute her version of what happened and when, because I would know with absolute certainty all the details.
In the long run, don’t make it a big issue. You know you're right and that's all that matters. Arguing the point with him is needless and would probably be annoying for him. Sometimes it’s better to let your partner win just to keep the harmony.
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reader, KeRrI117 +, writes (28 November 2007):
 Well most men like to brag to their friends ( ooooo i got asked out by who ever) dont no why tho suppose makes them feel good but also maybe that little debate you and him had about who asked who well i suppose he could be tryin to say something that maybe he likes you.
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