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writes:Me and my fiance are both bisexual and have an extremely well working relationship, we love each other to no bounds and the sex is absolutely amazing. We are both extremely loyal and would never dream of cheating on each other. But the question is how do we tell our parents? My parents are very strong christians and firm believers against bisexuals and gays. Her parents are strong catholics, but ive never truly heard them voice their opinion on the matter. We are sure we will always be together so how do we tell our parents?How do we tell our parents?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, your right i suppose, it is better that they didnt know it at all. I may tell them some day far off but for now its better left untouched.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (10 August 2008):
I agree with anneon.
You are in a relationship they approve of so why complicate things.
I don't tell my parents about lots of things that they wouldn't approve of.
There is an old saying that What they Don't Know, Can't Hurt Them.
In this case, all that would result of you coming out to them is hurt and upset.
Ignorance is bliss so let them stay blissful.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Don't, if your staying together what's the point? do you just want to cause chaos and hurt? I understand if you fell for a man but your not
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reader, anneon  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Why do you have to tell your parents? I guess I could understand you wanting to tell them if you were dating a member of the same sex, but as far as I can see, your sex life is your business, not theirs. As long as you aren't planning on having a long, serious relationship with another guy, just let them mind their own beeswax.But if you really want to tell them, theres no easy way to do it! They will probably try to talk you out of it, try to 'save you' and all that. So be prepared for a possibly extreme reaction!I don't think it's worth it!
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