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writes:I have a few questions! I am thinking about masturbating for the simple fact that my boyfriend is sometimes away and i get lonely while he is away. Ive never masterbated ever in my life and im not sure how to get it started or the right "tools" to start this? Am i strange for doing this? Just these past few months i have really wanted to do try it. But i have no idea how to even do it. I think i would feel a little weird going into a store to buy a vibrator or anything like that for that matter. What do i do? Just get the courage to buy a vibrator?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 April 2011):
 If you want a vibrator, buying online is a good place to look as it will cheaper, and there are reviews. Don't feel weird about masturbating, the vast majority of people do and it's perfectly natural and healthy. I'm sure your boyfriend does and would want you to be enjoying yourself as well. Again, reviews are great (from Drugstore.com, Amazon.com, etc...).
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reader, Kericonfused  +, writes (30 April 2011):
Personally i was freaking out when i bought my first vibrator. Now i love going to the sex shop and seeing what new toys they've got. So just walk in that door and see what they've got, also don't feel ashamed about asking questions, the people in the store are really helpfull
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2011): As it is your first time you should experiment. Get to know your body and and what makes your feel good. You probably wont want to go through the process of buying a new toy until you have decided what it is that you really enjoy. Use your fingers to experiment and see if you personally enjoy stimulating your clitoris or your g-spot more. Maybe you'll find a different spot all together that you enjoy or maybe you will find that all you really want is your boyfriend. Once you've decided what it is that really makes you feel wonderful you can decide what kind of toy you will enjoy the most and if you need help figuring that out than we can always help you out.
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