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reader, Rhandy  +, writes (13 December 2008):
 You must stop having affair with your BF since you will planning married,it will ruin your relationship or Dont marry if you dont love the person and follow your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): * Only one man (mistake)... sorry it's men that's got you into trouble in the first place... Your a cheat, and your husband doesn't deserve this..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): Cancel the wedding, your not ready to make vows to be faithful and love your husband ... It's greedy to have two men at once.. stay single, and choose to have sex with only one men at a time.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Huh? This is nuts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): Emotional bond? Are you having a laugh? Stop it before you hurt the man you are supposed to love as he will find out sooner or later - and it might just ruin your wedding day. Maybe you should show yourself some respect in the meantime.
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reader, Boredatwork  +, writes (12 December 2008):
 I agree with the previouis poster, Why are you getting married?You are cheating now... thats just not right!
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reader, sommerslover +, writes (12 December 2008):
 Lets look at another angle. How would you feel if the guy you plan to marry was getting oral sex from a girlfriend on the side, even though you plan to marry in a month. Would that be fair to you ? Is that being true to you ? I don't think you should get married. If you can't be true to your man now, you probably won't be after you are married.
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