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writes:I'll be turning age 72 next month. I've been divorced for almost 9 years now. I've had a strong porn addiction since I was age 12. I usually masturbate using busty babe porn videos at least once or twice each week. I want to get married again, but I know my porn addiction will be a major problem for my new wife. I've tried many times to quit my porn addiction, but so far, nothing has worked.Any advise on how to proceed?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2019): Older women are smarter these days.Do you want to get married so you have someone to cook and clean and take care of you?That really does not fly anymore.If you get married you should not need the porn anymore.Maybe you should just find a friend with benefits.Then you can porn out at home by yourself whenever you want.
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (7 July 2019):
Well the best of luck to you on your thought of wanting to get married again.My question for you ...why ..why would you need porn..when you would have a real woman to make love to.My best advise is to STOP.....its just like any addiction.Yes it would create a problem for a new wife.But if you love and marry her..then you must Respect her as well by giving up pron.Kind regards NORA B.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2019): First thing I thought is aren't you a little TOO OLD for this nonsense? Second thing I thought is you're 72 years old and started this addiction at 12 and are now becoming enlightened after failing wife no. 1? And soon to fail wife No. 2? Why do people who can't get their act together feel a need to impose their sickness on others? Tell your wife. Let her leave you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2019): The problem is you dragged a woman into your porn addiction knowing full well you wouldn't be a good husband to her or give her what she needs. You are a very selfish, self centered human being. It was better to have broken her heart knowing you're damaged goods by never getting involved with her than destroying her heart. Why would you even need a real woman!!??
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (6 July 2019):
 I'd suggest you read up on this addiction first of all -
https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/
Has some good resources.
Secondly, it's ALL about willpower, self-control and RESPECT for your partner.
Personally, I think masturbating is fine. But there is a TIME and a PLACE for it.
DO you have so little imagination OP, that you really NEED porn to assist you (sexually)?
Check out the website above and see if it can give you some insight.
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reader, KeW  +, writes (6 July 2019):
 Hello Sir,
Whilst once or twice per week does not sound like an addiction in the traditional sense, addiction can manifest differently for different people. If you believe you have an issue with this and have found no way to curb it, I strongly advise seeing a therapist.
When you say you want to get married again, does that mean you are in a relationship or that you just want to marry anyone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 July 2019): My boyfriend liked porn before he met me, how did he get off it, he replaced it for the real thing, me. I dont mean I am to be compared to porn simply he focused on us and real feelings.
If you think it is that bad you cant stop then maybe you need to try CBT counselling
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