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51-59,
anonymous
writes:This is the scenario: Married 14 yrs, getting divorced, since ex have not been able to orgasm easily with anyone, met someone now that is kind caring and still have trouble w/orgasm, have to use vibrator which never had to do with ex. Any opinions or has this happened to anyone that has been with one person a long time. Thanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): It takes time to get to know a new person so maybe you need to make your needs known. The one before would have learned things about you. With someone new we are sometimes nervous, both people, so it needs to be got over.
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reader, Gwen  +, writes (13 May 2008):
Well... I always take some time to adjust to any new partners. I guess after 14 years you just have to take some time to adjust. Talk and tell him what you like and how you like it...
Still, I think the main problem about having an orgasm is in our own head. Give yourself time and things will get normal again.
Good luck!
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