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writes: At the last Christmas party a colleague confessed all to me that he had fancied me for 18 months, (he is married) and wants us to be together, he isn't with his soul mate etc... We got off with each other but nothing else happened. Last weekend his close mate interrogated me asking me all questions about why I like his mate etc... I said that if his marriage was happy he should be and if he isn't then he should do something about it and not be unhappy etc... His mate was bugging him up to him and I asked how did he know and he said his mate fessed all a couple of months ago and didn't know what to do about it. Do you think his mate primed him to ask me or is his mate just being nosey? How serious is his mate? (the one I got off with?) I think and care a lot about him, there is a strong chemistry there.
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reader, Toria +, writes (21 September 2006):
 Like you said if his marriage is happy so should he be but then you don't see how happy he is when he is at home with his wife, you can't become his mistress as not only will you be used but all the time he knows he can have both he will always keep both, if his marriage is over he should leave his wife even if there isn't someone else there to take over the female role is his life, not only that but if you become his mistress he will never really respect you as you was the one that happily stayed in a relationship with a married man that went home to his wife at the end of everyday, not only that say in six months he leaves his wife to be with you will you ever be able to fully trust him knowing that he was with someone when you came along so what would stop him then being with you and having someone else come into his life and become the 'new' mistress.
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