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*arita kumari
writes:hi everyonei am 45 years asian lady having 2 children and nice husband and i didn't know how did i fall in love to asian man and he is married too with 3 children. one year we talked on the phone all the time when possible and we met few times and we kissed and other stuff but did not have sex, he asked me but i refused him, some times he needed mony and i hellped him and gave him nearly 5000 pounds but one day all the sudden he started to insult me and said lots of rubish and i asked the reason but he refused to say i rang him nearly 50 times to know the reason but he gets angry to hear my voice. i am glad he left me and saved my marriage but he had no right to insult me and i cry a lot and dont know what i do, i've lost money and feel guilty about my husband all the time and please help me how can i handle this situation and i can not tell my friend because i know everyone will blame me i know i made mistake. please help. thank you
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reader, sarita kumari +, writes (11 October 2010):
sarita kumari is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much everyone who helped me to answering my question and I feeling relaxed now.
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reader, BBee  +, writes (11 October 2010):
He is a Con Artist and took you for a ride. Any man that takes money from a woman is "NO DAM GOOD." He used you and you fell for it. He told you all the things you wanted to hear that your husband didn't say. RUN from this guy and NEVER talk to him again. What makes me mad is that he took money from you and that is your family's money. I would demand it back.
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reader, ltflowing  +, writes (11 October 2010):
Oh my God. This guy sounds awful and dangerous. Be careful. I can only tell you what I know from my own experience. Do not get further involved with this guy. Cut all connection immediately. He is out to destroy you. There are demons in the world and he is surely one of them. Careful, he may use whatever you have done with him to blackmail you into giving him more money. He sounds like a con artist. He is using anger to intimidate you to do what he wants.
As for your marriage, focus on it and make it right. But be careful if you want your marriage, don't try to find what you are missing in another person. It will never come to any good. If you actually want to leave your marriage, then end it and then move on with integrity.
Don't worry about the money. You won't see it again. Turn things around and tell yourself that you would pay that amount of money to keep that bad man out of your life. Right?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (11 October 2010):
 You need to seriously get over this guy. If you love your husband, you need to focus on how you would feel about destroying him and your marriage.
This worthless guy insulted you after taking your money? Do not let him move you one iota. You need to forgive yourself for giving this guy your family's money. You should be relieved that you didn't have sex with the guy. You should start investing in your relationship. What made you look elsewhere in the first place? Find out why, and love your husband and kids more than ever before.
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