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writes: I am married to a wonderful woman. We love each other very much and we have a great sex life. The problem is that I have only slept with her. I know this is very unusual and have been made fun of by guys at work. (An idiot coworker who knew me in high school thought it was ok to just blab it to everyone). I never meant for her to be the only one but it just so happened that we were right for eachother. I'm not really ashamed of it but did not want it to be common knowledge either. We commnunicate very well and have discussed this subject many times. We have been together for many years and I would never go outside of our marriage.. We have discussed a threesome as a possible solution but I am not sure it is a good idea. I admit to my curiosity of sleeping with another woman but do not want to jeopardize our relationship. I have been able to deal with it fairly well over the years but it is on my mind quite often. Surely I'm not the only one who has written asking about this subject. Any advice on how to deal with this problem?Thanks,Charles
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, karen, writes (6 January 2005): Forget these guys!Forget the threesome idea, because it will ruin what you have in some way or other.These guys are ridiculing you because they are probably jealous. Maybe it is unusual for a guy to have only had one partner, but hey who's counting.You have something very special, many people would love to have what you have, including these guys, if the truth were known.And it is certainly not worth wrecking what you have just to score points with these morons.cherish what you have!!
A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): Don't be stupid, it's the most amazing thing, if you are happy with your sex life, you have the perfect marriage and the guys that make fun of you will never ever ever ever have what you have. It is a glorious thing and you and your wife should BRAG about it. In this twisted world, you are the exception!!! See it as that, there is nothing wrong, just change your view!!!Millions of woman and guys want exactly what you have, a partner who has only "practised" on you.Cherish it!!!
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