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writes: I am a happily married man, 63. During the past 4 years I have become good friends with a woman, who is also married, but she is a transsexual. I knew this when I first met her.She is still married to her wife (she was a man when they married). Over the last few months, I realized that I love this woman. We go out quite often and the 4 of us are actually friends (we took the both of them out to dinner this weekend, for my friends birthday). My friend knows my feelings, but does not share the same feelings for me, but regards me as a very close friend. My wife also knows I love my friend and is ok with it. My question is, how can I get rid of this feeling, when its not an important issue in my life? I've tried everything, but the feeling seems to be getting more intense.
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Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A reader, Wise Worm, writes (6 January 2005): Stop seeing her/him...It's the only way, you say you are happily married??? Why the interest in this man/woman? Is it sexual or are you looking for a replacement in your life? You need to find out what it is that creates this interest.THe best would be to break contact, and move on with your happy marriage.
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