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writes:i think i should be worried. What do you think. Brief history when my wife and i first slept together it was magical. We had strong feelings and were best friends...then her family got a hold of her and we were forced apart for almost two months. When we finally talked again she was distant and when i asked if she thought what happened was a mistake she said no....(this is the magic phrase she said) i dont want to be in a relationship right now...a week later she was seeing someone. So i fought for her passive aggresivley. Couple more months past im just about moving on because i was hurt being brushed to the side then she calls and asked if she could stay with me....yadda yadda yadda. Now present day my wife left three days ago we just arent seeing eye to eye. She said she was done and we will have to work out custody and such for the baby. Tonight she calls me and it is my bday...but she calls to tell me she went out with her one friend and another couple to applebees and they were blindfolding each other and guessing foods...that im still mentally fubarred about. Then couple hours later we actually start talkin a little. But the magic phrase was uttered. I dont want to be in a relationship right now... ...it hit me like a nuclear warhead...she basically has no clue what she wants...but because of that phrase...im now completly lost. I reminded her that she said that to me beforeand the circumstance. And all she says is oh that was different ...i dont see it that way...so please can someone lay down some bread crumbs so i can find my way out of these woods thanks yall
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Shes playing games with you... she could have been drunk when you called... maybe some females can give you better advice but my advice dont play her stupid game get a lawyer and get a divorce give her what she wants... women these days actually theyve always been this way eve gave adam a forbidden apple your wife gets plastered with her friends at applebees on your Birthday... if you love her fight for he but seems like you could save the battlefield for somethng more important or a woman thats worth it
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