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writes:i have got married 7 months back to a simple girl.ours was an arranged marriage. before marriage she used to have vomiting episodes and when enquired to her parents they told that she has problem of acidity. But after a couple of days of marriage she started vomiting. and after thorough physical examination a psychiatrist was referred who treated her for 6 months without success. when doctor suggested of hypnotherapy, my wife confessed to me that she had been taking psychiatric treatment before marriage for the same problem which fact was hidden from my family and me. for past 7 months she has been a patient and has not been able to perform any duty of a wife. after knowing this i am totally shatterd and am thinking on the line of seperation. kindly help and advice on the same. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): If it is a serious matter that would affect your marriage in a major way then she had an obligation to tell you before you married her. I would think it is a deal breaker.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): I don't quite like the expression you use: "Duty of a wife"... She is ill, and maybe you should concentrate on her getting better rather than the things she is not able to do because of her illness. Your marriage was arranged, as you say, and it actually sounds to me like you don't love your wife. If you did, you would probably be worried about her health rather then the "duties" she is not able to perform as your wife.
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