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writes:Of course all help and/or opinions will be much appreciated, but if possible a male's opinion would be amazing. There's this guy that I've liked for a while, probably a couple of months now and up until about 3 weeks ago, the most I'd said to him was 'hi'. I recently found out that we support the same football team so we have at least one thing in common. Two days ago, I made conversation with him by bringing up the latest game. We had a decent enough chat about it and also got talking about the players we like/hate/wish would join etc. I was so into the conversation that I didn't realise that I had to be somewhere else (pity) and even though it was probably obvious that I was trying to end the conversation, he kept on talking. There's also been a few times when I'll go watch him play football and when he's standing doing nothing much else, because of waiting for a corner kick to happen etc. he'll stand pretty close to where I'm standing or sitting.Sometimes I think he might actually like me too, but how to be sure? I'm way too shy to walk up to him and ask if he does.So I have two questions. Does it sound like he likes me too, or more like wishful thinking? And if he does, and suggestions on how I might go about making the first move?Thank you so much for and answers.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 June 2009):
 Nobody is perfect. But maybe you can use the fact that you haven't seen him in a long time to arrange something.
I hope you're not Chelsea fans?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all for your answers. I haven't seen him for long enough recently to start a conversation about anything but I really appreciate all of your help.
And no, the team we have in common isn't Arsenal. Sorry! :D
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (20 May 2009):
I think we can't be sure whether he likes you, or liked the fact that he could talk about your common team. However, if you like him, let it show, and that way you'll know if he likes you too. Too bad the season is almost over, but perhaps you can ask him to watch a game with you and then tell him how much you enjoyed the game BECAUSE HE WAS THERE, et cetera.
I hope the team in question is Arsenal?
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reader, KaylaLeeann  +, writes (20 May 2009):
- Simply ask him if he likes you..
I'm in the same position..
but tooo scared to do it;
trust me.
go ask him; talk to him.
&&.
everything will fall into place :) ..
One way Or The other!
(:
-messsagee/aaddd/tallllk to me? :)
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reader, Dreamlover  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 Hey there, guys are funny creatures. There is no right or wrong in what you want answers to but there is a tactful and tactless way to do it.
There is no harm in asking him if he likes you but obviously its not that easy. Why not ask him for dinner? Im sure he will get the hint, if you an old fashion gal, go for dinner with him and wait for him to ask, get chatting to him more and see what more he likes and if you can be compatable with him.
There is no wrong in taking the first step as a woman...
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