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writes: I met a girl through work. We were both in relationships. Over time we became very close, and the inevitable happened and we started an affair. At first we met for an hour after work, then progressed to spending our days off together. Over time we became really really close and we fell in love. Her boyfriend then proposed to her and I felt guilty and called it off, but she begged me to stay with her, which I did. Our love became really strong and we got on better than ever. My proper relationship ended, but I had the other girl and was really happy. Then I decided to move work place due to an unmissable job. She made me promise to stay with her forever which I did, however within weeks of leaving, she called it a day saying she loved her boyfriend and felt guilty. I was devasted. For about 6 months I tried to get her back, but she was not interested. Then one day she told me she still loved me, but nothing could happen. Then our friendship took a dive and over the last year, we argued all the time. She told me she did not love me anymore and that we are different people now.All she wants is to be friends. I went to the states for a few weeks, and she text me alot, when I didnt reply she got upset asking what my problem was. Cut a long story short, we still e-mail each other, and she continues to say that she only wants me as a friend nothing else. I miss her so much, and as sad as it seems, I still have feelings for her. She has made it clear I am not important to her anymore. Please help me and tell me the best course of action. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2005): You should probaly let her go maybe she was in love with you but who knows she might have had second thoughts and didn't want to lose the one she was with. It's tough but you'll get through it I wouldn't call her or have any contact with her maybe she'll relize what she wants and if it's you she'll let you know just try to move on and hope someone better comes along maybe someone who doesn't mess around on their boyfriend. Good luck
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