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writes:I'm 13 years old and my mom is getting married in a while to a really nice man. And his son who Is the same age had a thing for me and I'm not sure if he still does and I mind if he still does. But when he told me he tried to start something but I stopped it before something did happen. It's been a month since then and now I confused about my feelings for him, and now he just buggs the hell our of me but then sometimes i feel like he hates me. I'm really confused on what to do about my own love hate relationship and im on the edge of a breakdown what should I do? Please help ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2010): Try talking to your mom. Explain the situation and she will probably give you advice (on boys, on dating, on brothers, on the actual situation) and also talk to his dad who will probably give him advice in turn. You could try talking to him too. Tell him how you feel and if he still has feelings for you he'll listen. Best of luck! Blended families are hard and made even harder, I'm sure, if romance is involved.
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reader, GettingHelp  +, writes (9 August 2010):
He was probably really hurt when you turned him down and is now acting out in a kind of defensive move.
But don't worry, I had a friend who dated her stepbrother for a while, they grew out of it eventually.
Try talking to your mom about it, explaining how great you think your soon to be step dad is but you're having a rough time with your step-brother.
You could try talking to your step-brother, but he will probably grow out of it anyway and he is simply making lfe difficult for himself. It may also be very difficult for him to adjust to the idea of his dad getting re-married (? - Im assuming). Regardless he probably has issues dealing with the fact that you rejected him, you're going to be his new sister and your mom is going to be his new mom. You may feel step-sister and step-mom but he may be really confused at this time. Its not an excuse, but maybe a little insight into his head?
Oh and boys annoy girls. its what they do. But if it is malicious then it is out of the ordinary.
Good luck!
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