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writes: [Mod Note: 2 questions combined from same poster.]Q.I felt really bad for this kid I met. He was so sweet, but he was just so awkward. He was constantly put down by his peers, too.So, as the good person I am, I asked him out. We've hung out once or twice, and he's turned out to be kind of cool and funny.He told me that he loved me, and I lied. I said I loved him back.I do love him, but not in that way. He wants to take this relationship further, but I just wanted to make him not feel like a loser. If I dump him, or reject him, it'll hurt him bad.But... I'm in love with someone else (which is another complication.)What should I do?Q. I have a complicated, love tale. It started a couple monthes ago, when I was talking to my best friend (via IM) and I confessed I liked this boy who was one of her best friends. I don't know if it was out of jealous- or just rotten fate- but she also said she loved him. Well, okay. I didn't mind. I mean, noting is going to happen between them, right? They're just friends. I was wrong. After a lot of false encouragments, finally, he (maybe lied) said he loved her back. I almost died.I didn't realize how much I actually did love him. I regret everything.I really just want to tell him, but it will be awkward. Even though we're only about two years apart, he treats me like a daughter. I love him more than I love to breath. He is my everything, secretly.Should I tell him, or should I keep it to myself?
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reader, MyanMoi +, writes (12 January 2011):
MyanMoi is verified as being by the original poster of the question I guess you're right.
I do have a lot on my plate right now, and I feel like a terrible person for egging the first boy on like that.
I'll just try to live freely. Thank you for the great advice, prostudent2010~!
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