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Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

Q.   Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

A.   28 October 2009: you are so right about not yet sleeping with him because if you do it will be doubly hard to get your self together as we women most often than not attribute sex to a commitment, which i think you so want to have with him already. he is not in a ... (read in full...)

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

Q.   Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

A.   28 October 2009: you are so right about not yet sleeping with him because if you do it will be doubly hard to get your self together as we women most often than not attribute sex to a commitment, which i think you so want to have with him already. he is not in a ... (read in full...)

Is he truly not ready, or just not into me?

Q.   Hi there, I met this man who is 30 and has just come out of a 7 year relationship. He bought a house and lived with his ex. She has moved out but they are now going through settlement. He says it is completely over and there is nothing between ...

A.   28 October 2009: you are so right about not yet sleeping with him because if you do it will be doubly hard to get your self together as we women most often than not attribute sex to a commitment, which i think you so want to have with him already. he is not in a ... (read in full...)

How do I sweep him off his feet?

Q.   the guy i love has loved a girl for 15 years,and he told me that he wants to forget her,and that he thinks that im the one who could make him do that..can anyone please tell me how?please can you help me think of something?i wanna sweep him off his ...

A.   27 October 2009: don't lift a finger. give yourself some respect. let him do the "sweeping." also, 15 years is a long time... maybe he needs more time to get over this woman. you are bound to be a rebound if you become so eager to please him because he will know ... (read in full...)

Why did he have to call his ex about my STD?

Q.   I recently broke it off with a guy I was seeing LDR for 7 months. I got myself tested since I always want a clean break from everything before dating again, and found out I had Gonorrhea. I never had symptoms which was weird. I told my ex about it ...

A.   24 October 2009: oh I forgot to say.... he also said "Am so sorry for that."... (read in full...)

Losing interest in an LDR?

Q.   Hey everyone, I'm in a LDR right now and i have been for about 3 months now. I love her, a lot, but i only get to see her about 2 times a month. I feel like im losing interest but i think it's just a feeling of not being able to be with her. I d...

A.   24 October 2009: i suggest that the two of you talk about "the future" see if one is willing to relocate. i just broke it off with 7 month ldr because he didn't seem to be keen on seeing each other regularly and so i felt that it wasn't as serious as i wanted it to ... (read in full...)

Do I play his game or just let this go?

Q.   my ex and i started talking after i reached out to him after a year and with him knowing i want to try to work things out and also that i cant just be friends. He said we will exchange calls and then meet we have been talking for almost two month...

A.   24 October 2009: i think maybe he is not as interested in pursing a relationship again with you. maybe he is starting to think twice about his decision to give it another try. and now he is merely texting and calling you to be polite. i suggest that you stop ... (read in full...)

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