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writes:I've been in an LDR for a year and a half and am very lonely right now. I don't really know what I should do. I have a nice job, has benefits, etc., but have thought about moving to England to find work and be closer to him. I love him with all my heart, can't picture my life without anyone else and of course the old cliche, don't know how I got this far in life without him. Lol!At first I was all gung-ho about moving to England, but now I'm not so sure. I want to be closer to him and be in the same time zone, but I almost feel like I'd be throwing my life away here if I do that as I like my job for the most part.He wants to move to the US, but can't right now and I can't bear to be apart from him for years again.What do you think I should do?And anyone in an LDR, how do you cope with the loneliness? We text, email, chat on MSN and sometimes call, but I miss the physical aspect of it, you know?
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reader, RIKI93dw  +, writes (21 August 2010):
I suggest that if you are really considering moving to England to be with him why dnt you take a break from your job and visit him and see if living in England is for you and while youre there you could check all the possible choices you have if you moved permanently like jobs and such. Or as you said he wants to come to you in the US but can't right now then whenever possible he could do the same or similar. You could one or the other or both and possibly compare to see if a permanent move for one is the best
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