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36-40,
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writes:I think i am a possessive and a very jealous person. Actually my boyfriend keeps telling me that..i know he is right.i am 23 and he is 35..i dont know..but it never happened to me before,each call which he has,each conversation with a woman is drive me crazy .i dont want to be a person which controls his life,but sometimes i dont know what he wants. Today we had a fight,was words which made me cry. He sad that isn't ready to something else,he isn't used to all thise things, why i am pressure all thise situation. I know he is right but, the simple though of losing him is make me nuts. I realize that is not good for our relations and i want to get off of this feeling of jealousy. I need an advice,how to think,what to think, what to do, please help me, i feel i am losing my mind..
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2009): I am also a very jealous person (especially with my bf). It is sometimes difficult to control your overwhelming feelings and it hurts to feel like your partner may be interested in someone else.
Are these women he's talking to friends? Are the convos innocent? maybe you should calmly ask about them and have him tell you a bit about them. I do this with my bf and it helps mefind out how he feels about them.
As for the hurtful words, he also needs to respect your feelings and try to assure you that he loves you, not throw mean words at you. You two definately need to have a long, calm talk.
Good luck babe
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