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writes:First off I'm gonna have to give you a little bit of background info, so please bear with me. I was put into a care home when I was about 2 and then adopted by a couple who couldn't have children of their when I was 7, I call them mum and dad and everything and they are my parents in every sense of the word. My mother though, had an enstranged sister, I say had because she died when I was about 10, and her daughter, whose a year younger than me, came to live with us. It wasn't meant to be a perminent thing but then mum and dad decided they wanted to keep her, so they did and I got a new sister. But the thing is, lately I've been feeling really, really atracted to her and we have so much in common and I just really really fancy her. I know it's weird because legally we're siblings/cousins but I only met her when I was 10 and we aren't actually related. What shall I do about it?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): This is a hard question to answer. Did you live in the same house and raise by the same parents growing up. How can you meet her only once if your adopted parents took her in ? Ask her if she has the same feelings for you and go from there. Myself personally, I wouldn't date her though even though you're not related.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): Well your at a hormonal stage in your life so of course your attracted to someone you know you arent related to but will it be right is the question?i wouldnt do anything about it personally is my advice as i dont think your `parents` would be happy about it at all and it would be strange to them their `children` dating i think they would think of it as.if you want to go date her then go ahead but make sure shes ok with it first.
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