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Left hubby for another man but not so sure it was the right thing to do...

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Question - (14 June 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

How do I choose?

I recently left my husband of 5 years, after being unhappy for a good part of it. To our family and friends this was a big shock as everyone thought we were happy.

I probably would have just kept on plodding along, but had met someone who as a friend had shown me that there was more to life.

This progressed further and since leaving my husband, we have been together now for several months. This was made easier in the beginning because my husband had on the advice of family said he probably would be happier without me.

Now he has changed his mind and is saying he will do absolutely anything to change. He is also saying that if I dont come back he cant see me again cos it is 2 painful.

I cant bear the thought of not seeing him again and do still love him, but have started a new life with my partner, who I love and who has made me happy.

Will I regret it for the rest of my life if I dont give my hubby a chance?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2006):

The grass is always greener at the other side. Think twice before you commit. Everybody deserve a second chance

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (14 June 2006):

maxsteel86 agony auntYou might regret it. But then again, you might regret on missing out on the life with your new guy. Think about it for a while and decide whether you can believe your husband will live up to his promises permanently or whether he'll slip back to his old ways.

In the end, if you cant decide, flip a coin :-P worked for me on so many things!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2006):

[ahem] Will you regret it for the rest of your life if you don't give your husband a chance?

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