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writes:I m a 21 yr old woman, I was in a troubled relationship, initially he was really serious and in love but then later on he would abuse me for small things like not going out when I told him I would. Once I told him I would leave him in a fight and for that he called me a whore. I stopped talking to him but he lured me to a place and apologized. I was adamant I wanted to break ties with him. To this he said this is not a reason big enough for you to leave me, I didn't cheat on you", and after this he tried to hit me on face but it hit my hands. Even after all this he cries and tells everyone and me too that he loves me. Is he a psycho?I broke up with him and haven't been talking since more than a month..I am at home and he threatened he would make my life miserable when I go back and see to it. I ignored him and he called me a low life also. I am kinda scared what he might do but I told my parents about him and am at peace since then.Please tell me how to cope up when I go back to college?
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reader, Mishti +, writes (3 March 2014):
Mishti is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou soo much for your advice :)
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reader, Fanoflove  +, writes (28 February 2014):
In my experience, emotional abuse or physical abuse is inexcusable. You have reason to be afraid. One more troubling incident and tell him he is an asshole and that you have more respect for yourself than to be verbally abused. Say, "sorry but you made your bed now lie in it"!
Restraining order time
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2014): If this person is at college with you then you need to inform a member of staff, if he is just someone you know from the area than you need to avoid all contact with him, even if it restricts what you do, let him get over you and just stay out of his way.
There could be a numerous number of things going on in his life or head that you may never know about or understand and so you need to just keep clear.
If he keeps harassing you, inform the police and take a stronger approach but give him no warning. If he is willing to abuse you then you don't know what a warning could do, you need to inform someone and avoid meeting him at all cost. Don't go near him and try to walk places with someone, don't be caught alone.
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