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writes:My boyriend has been refusing to have sex with me and i dont kno y. Ive started a diet thinking that is y but idk. Hes been really mean to me lately and it hurts its like he doesnt appreciate me. He never says please or thank u. Recently i told him im going 2 the air force. Could thata b it. I might just leave him wat do u think? jo 5g6 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): Right, there can be one of two things, if he was mean to you before you told him you where joining the force,then be prepared, alot of men find themselves feeling trapped, and could stray, his unwillingness to have sex and his aggression could stem from his guilt, and the fact that you are going away, this is his escape route!!!
OR it could genuinly be down to the fact that he will miss you and this is his way of getting use to you not being there. He may feel that he no longer satisfies you? has something happened to him recently? medically it could possibly be something, may be he is finding it difficult to rise to the occassion and stay risen? only you as his g/f will now that. I wish i could give you the answers but the very fact that you considered for the relationship to end is a sign CAN YOU HANDLE A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP!!!!!!
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reader, ginger22  +, writes (20 September 2007):
Thats not it if he love you he wont jus go off 4 a new bit a A*** he probs is scared of loesing you as the top 1 sed,my bf hardly evea as sex with me and thats coz he wrks hard and we have 2 kids so hardly have time for it he says the more i go on about it the more he dnt give it to me c***!!!!!!!!!! only kiddin love him really
take care n good luck in air force
xxx
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (20 September 2007):
 Hi there, sweetness,
I think it's quite possible that your boyfriend is pulling away from you because you've told him that you're going to the air force. Gosh, if my boyfriend told me he was joining the air force, I would go crazy!!
I think this is just the way your boyfriend is dealing with this huge bomb you've just dropped. I think you should sit down and talk to him about how he really feels about you going to the air force. He's probably very afraid of losing you, of being away from you, of having you leave him. He's probably trying to get as emotionally unattached to you as he can before you leave. That way, it'll be easier for him once you're gone.
Tell him that you're not leaving to hurt him, and talk openly and honestly about your (and his) feelings regarding your soon life change.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): that could be it or he could just be goin thru a stage my bf says that is what wrong with him sometimes. but dont worry if that is it he will hit a stage where that is all he wants to do !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2007): He probably just doesn't like you anymore. Men get bored especially at a young age & they want a piece of new a**. Unless he expressed disapproval for your air force idea, that may not even be it.
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