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Ladies, I want to try anal sex but tell me...does it hurt??

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Question - (2 November 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2006)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

Girls,Just wanted to know whether anal sex hurts because i wanna try it with my new man!! Does it hurt more than having sex as a virgin?? thanx

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A female reader, hemé'oono  +, writes (28 December 2006):

hemé'oono  agony auntAnal hurts if it is done improperly or too fast. You have to be ready for it. Go slow, use fingers or small toys to work your way up to it. There is lube out there made specifically for anal. I recommend the use of that. I personally love anal but only when it is done right. I have had it hurt like heck but I have had vaginal hurt too.

It can also be messy sometimes....so make sure you are with someone that it won't embarrass you totally if it happens to come out a little differently.

Have FUN!!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2006):

Well, It does hurt a bit a first, but pain can be lessend by going slow and using lube. Make sure you start with smaller things like fingers (yours or his!) then a small vibrator and finally, with his cock- Thats what I have done in the past. If I go for a long time without anal,then I have to do it the same way, starting small- But I have been with a few guys who like to do it a lot and in that case, I stay 'ready' to accept him, a bit loose, I guess. Right now, I am with a really awsomely endowed guy and we haven't discussed anal yet, but its something I like to do, I wonder how to work up to someone of significant size... I guess larger and larger dongs...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2006):

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thanx im really nervous but people have sed u get a good sensation so im gonna be brave and use loadz of lube thank you xxx

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A female reader, sexseahot United States +, writes (2 November 2006):

sexseahot agony auntIt does hurt, but it don't have to hurt soooo bad. Just relax yourself and it should be fine. Tensing up makes it harder for both of you to enjoy it. Definitely use A LOT of lube and if it hurts too bad, just don't do it. It's not for everyone...

Good Luck!!!

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A female reader, Lemonpixie United States +, writes (2 November 2006):

Lemonpixie agony auntWell it quite uncomfortable in my opinion. I only tried it twice and said never again! But some women love it. Just use plenty of lube, and make sure he wears a condom anal sex is the easiest way to obtain STD's

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