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writes:What does it mean when your partner is interested in sex but doesn't give any indication of it - just lays there waiting for you to make the first move!?I am starting to find it really taxing - it is like I have to be a mindreader to know when and when isn't the right time - as there is nothing else to go by. In the end I realise but it all seems like guesswork. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): I know us women are a bit of a minefield sometimes but isnt that why you love us?!!.lol.
But seriously I think that maybe she isnt confident enough or maybe doenst know how to initiate sex.
Ther are a lot of things you left out, is she new to sex?, is this her first serious relationship?, is this her first relationship FULL STOP?!. without this information its hard for us aunts to advise you fully.
I really dont understand why people are'nt able to talk to thier spouses about this stuff straight up, I'm glad your concerned about this and I'm glad you have come here and asked this question, but seriously WHY CANT YOU JUST GET THE ANSWER STRAIGHT FORM THE HORSES MOUTH??, so to speak.
when you avoid discussing these things through with your loved one, thats when problems occurr.
ok SPEAK TO THE DAMN WOMEN!!. LOL!!.
ok good luck mate.
xx
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (2 November 2006):
 Hiya,
I think you should talk to her calmy. Gently tell her how u feel and guide her so that she can be free to explore different new ways to make u happy and get fulfilment herself.
Goodluck
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