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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, ok you may remember me, i wrote up about this last, that i thought he liked me and so did a mate, because he showed loads of strong signs and everything, and then i found out he doesn't...and that he wants to stay single.But anyway thankfully he's been fine with me at college and everything, only thing is a lot of the really strong staring has died down, like it doesn't happen as often, but it DOES still happen. Also i have been having a few problems at college with people - as you will know if you remember me. I know some of you have said that maybe he does like me but won't admit it and stuff, and thats what i'm starting to wonder because some people at college are still making these comments like, once we were on about weddings and they said (name) would take you down the isle and, when i passed him someone's phone one of them said "yeah just cuz u wanna pass it to ur b/f" n stuff like that, and they still accuse me of liking him. Now this makes me think they knew before, (he hasn't told any of them) but if they did he would have known(which we thought he may have done) but then if he did and didn't feel the same way, surely the signs would have stopped completely. What confuses me is that it still does happen, just not as much. So i don't really know what to think. Anyway since this i really wanna become better friends with him at college and since i'm having problems with the others it's made it a bit difficult. I don't really know how to talk to him, but i want him to see i'm not this person they make me out to be. I have no contcat with him outside college either, and at the moment asking for his number isn't the best idea. It's so hard though, because i seriously love him, i'm struggling to come to terms with the fact we have 9 weeks off for the summer, i miss him all the time and just want to be good mates with him because i think we could be good mates.So how could i start to do that? Ok thats' the main bit over with, now onto something else i wanna ask. Well as i've said, the others aren't that nice to me and we play cards alot at college and i was before him and what i put down meant he had to pick up because he couldn't go, and when he said like "oh great" or "you had to do that didnt ya" (you know, as you do) one of the lads said "punch her" and then this lad i like says "why don't you?" Now at the time it didn't seem like a nasty comment it was as if he was saying no, your the one that wants to so why don't you, instead of telling me to do it but then again it could be taken in another way. What do you think? He is a nice lad in general, and at the time i didnt take that nastily, and i don't think it was really...i'm just not to sure. One person i asked said, well it would depend on his tone of voice, but what would it have to sound like to see how it was meant? So anyway, could you please help me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2008): hey i wrote this-- i have told him, well he knows anyway! cheers for ur reply!
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reader, smiler08 +, writes (21 May 2008):
hi babe steff here ill have a go at this one for you...
ok im round the same ages as you and had the same problem in skool!!
tell him how you feel and dont be ashamed to theres nothing to be ashamed of atleast you would have the courage to tell him how u felt!!if you love him nothing and no1 will stop you or get in the way...you shouldnt care what other people say or think of you..I DIDNT!!you are your own person with your own feelings and its only goin to make things harder if you dont tell him how u feel...
the only way you can find out where you stand is if you tell him!!
im sure he didnt mean it in that way hes young he wouldnt want to turn round to his friend and say no i dont wanna hurt her he would be afraid of what they would say to him..
jst be honest with him babe
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