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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:So I met this guy back in college (my freshman year) and there was an attraction between us, but we just never seemed to find the right place or time for anything to happen. I tried to make it apparent that I did want something to happen and I believe he did to but were both kind of shy. So we left it at that and stopped talking. It’s 5 years later and I still think about him every now and then. So I recently started talking the train to work with my Boy Friend (who I am no longer with) and who do I run into but the old crush I got so nervous and all my feelings just came shooting back (I am EXTREMELY sexually attracted to him) I walked right by him and pretended I didn’t even notice him, I did this for a good 2 months my BF was with me every single time. He looked offended that I did say hi to him in the beginning and he probably thinks I some crazy nut now (I actually had a facial expression of oh god it’s you). I look forward to seeing him on the train but that’s all that ever happens we just see each other (I try to avoid eye contact).I don’t know how to approach him he is with a friend every day and I just I have no back-bone I am so nervous and scared, I turn beet red. At the same time I feel I am making a total big deal of this and he prob doesn’t even give two hoots about me. I just don’t know how to break the ice. I smiled at him last week but beyond that I am lost for words. I think I screwed it up already.Anonymous
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reader, Jendorset  +, writes (22 May 2007):
Why not just say hi. Do you remember what he studied in colledge ? Ask him if he got a job through his course or something like that. Or ask him if he still sees someone you both knew at colledge.
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