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writes:I've known "john" for 8 years. We both live in a small farm town, and he happens to live only about a half a mile from my house. Everyday up until 3 months ago we were together. John had always been in love with me and I knew this, but for some reason always pushed him away and asked for his help in finding a good guy to date. Within the past year, I've dated 3 of johns friends, and now my relationship with his best friend, mike, is getting serious. About the time mike and I got together is when john decided to move on. Now that john has someone, and I am with someone, my true emotions have become apparent. I love him. The fun mike and I have is nothing to what john and I can still create. About a week ago john and I went to a party. As a complete drunken mess I confessed my love to john. He was confused and hurt that I had pushed him away for so long. Then he kissed me. We vowed to keep it our biggest secret. For the first time in 3 months he's called me everyday this week, and wants to get together. What do you think I should do? What are his intentions?
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 You lucky thing you! This guy (John) obviously likes you alot and maybe even loves you. He waited around for you for a long time and watching you date other men couldn't of been good for him, and so he eventually decided that he needed to try and have other relationships. He probably feels very confused as you have pushed him away for so long, and now you tell him you love him.
I don't think he has any other intentions other than to be with you and it sounds like ou could have a pretty good relationship with this guy, I would speak to your bf and be honest with him and try a relationship with John, you could always regret it if you don't!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (18 January 2008):
 You told him you love him.Your latent love surfaced and now John is reciprocating. Now, you asked what is his intentions? You invited John to come inside and he did. He loved you for so long and he wants you to be his g/f. Do you have a problem?
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