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writes:Hi there, im 19, and female. i have been having feelings for other girls for around 3 years now but ive only stopped having feelings for men recently. I just don't find them attractive anymore, but the female sex is intriging me. I don't know if this means i am becoming bisexual, or even gay. However on nights out i still tend to be drunk and kiss guys. A girl approached me the other night and said she thought i was cute, i said: "nah" and walked off, but fully regretted it. its the only time ive been chatted up by a female, does this mean im beginning to give off "gay vibes?!" ....the first two years i felt for girls, it was just one, a friend. for a while i thought she felt the same way but she doesn't. i have got over her now, but recently find myself, looking at other girls most places, on nights out, at university etc.i don't know what to do, but i dont want anyone i know to find out until i am sure. how would i go about this?help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2008): Have you had problems in relationships with men?
I've noticed that humans may consider their own gender if they need to be loved and can't find it with the other sex.
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reader, *Crazy in Love*  +, writes (3 May 2008):
Hun if your heart tells you that you are more interested in girls then follow your heart. It doesnt matter what people may say or anything. As long as your truley happy than thats all that should matter. Just do what feels right. Hope i helped. Good Luck!!!
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reader, :):):) +, writes (3 May 2008):
Hi honey, most people are attracted to the same sex at some point in their lives, sometimes for a short period of time sometimes for longer.You dont have to choose your sexuality now or put yourself in a box.
Go with your instincts, be true to yourself, what others think doesnt matter as long as you're happy.No-one really chooses who they fall in love with, so long as they make you happy it really dosent matter what sex they are.
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