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writes:ive lost the love of my life and have no one to talk to we did everything together we even said tht we wanted to spend the rest of our lifes together then i the last night i saw her we said our goodbyes and we both said love u and she said she wanted to stay at home alone 2night so i stood by her wishies and made other plans.than half way threw the nigh she said she wanted me to stay at hers she was missin me and i said ive made other plans sorry and i think it will do us good to be apart 4 1 night then she finished me sayin she wasnt happy and didnt love me anymore im so hurt by this i bought her aeverything and were even goin on holiday at the end of this month ive tried takin to her and tellin her how i feel and wht im goin threw and she sais she is goin threw the same but she tries not to cry she said she would talk to me in a couple of weeks wen im kinda over her she said but i know im not im so in love with this girl and want her back i know theres a lad she works with she said she doesnt fancy just likes his personality could he have anythin to 2 with my problem i realy want her bk wht could i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2007): im in the same boat tho my girl well ex has made it quit clear she wants nothing to do with me. i suggest you let her have her wings, i know its hard but if she loves you she will come back, i keep annoying my ex with txts n emails but i cant help it i love her and miss her so much. i think its making things worse, so let her have the chance to miss you. there is nothing els you can do. maybe txt i love you now and again n that don't mean every night wish you all the best good luck m8
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): She sounds VERY immature. Don't call her, let her realize she misses you. But if she does not, there is a good chance she's found someone new. Give it time.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (8 August 2007):
 Sounds like she is having a temper tantrum because you made other plans to me.
Give her a couple of days then see what happens. Dont go contacting her!
Be strong! Dont be creeping and pandering to her. You will never know whats going on then. Then when she does contact you, have a decent chat.
Is she young?
C xxxxx
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reader, Emmii +, writes (8 August 2007):
Maybe its the right thing to do , you be apart...If she was goin to finish with you for something as little as you not being able to see her for one night , then is she really worth it ? Well unless thats not the true reason , if its not if she really loved you dont you think she would have enuf decentcy to tell you the truth , maybe she tryin to fogg you off for a couple of weeks , to make you get ova her a litle so it wont be so hard when she really wants to finish it ?!!
But i guess if you really want to make it work you should stick at it as much as you feel the need to , wait for the time when she decides to talk to you , dont try anything sooner cos she likely to just have a go at you for not giving her the space and sayin she said she will speak to you in a couple of weeks...
Just let it be...What is to be will become...Good things come to thoose who wait...
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reader, Emmii +, writes (8 August 2007):
Maybe its the right thing to do , you be apart...If she was goin to finish with you for something as little as you not being able to see her for one night , then is she really worth it ? Well unless thats not the true reason , if its not if she really loved you dont you think she would have enuf decentcy to tell you the truth , maybe she tryin to fogg you off for a couple of weeks , to make you get ova her a litle so it wont be so hard when she really wants to finish it ?!!
But i guess if you really want to make it work you should stick at it as much as you feel the need to , wait for the time when she decides to talk to you , dont try anything sooner cos she likely to just have a go at you for not giving her the space and sayin she said she will speak to you in a couple of weeks...
Just let it be...What is to be will become...Good things come to thoose who wait...
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