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anonymous
writes:A few years back my best friend proposed to me. At that time,I did not feel anything. But some time in the last year or so, I believe I have fallen for him. Just when I wanted to tell him, he informed me that he is getting married. Now I am devastated. I am kicking myself for not accepting it in the first place and then not telling him soon enough about my feelings earlier. I don't want to tell him now and disrupt his life. But I needed to get this out of my system. I love him. I really love him. I just want the best for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): You should feel happy he's found someone he loves and who he's going to marry. You had your chance and you didn't have the same feelings for him - DON'T go chasing him! Maybe one day you will be able to tell him how you feel [if he is every single again] but let him be happy.In time you'll get over him.
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reader, lisa kathleen gates  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 maybe yes you shouldve taken his offer but there is nothing worse then marrying for the wrong reasons. you should always marry for love,
it seems to me (please donot take offence) he was in a rush to marry. if you truly love him then let him go. you can still be mates and have lots of happy times to come. trust me x
plus his marriage might go up the spout anyway so you can have him then, when the time is right for the both of you. but dont hold your breath.
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