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writes:Hello, well im going through a bad patch in conserns to my love life, basicly i had a good relationship with a girl a few months ago and we split up on a bad note, then i fell for somebody else but it didnt go anywhere so i gave up, which im also upset about, and ive been thinking alot about things, im 16 and dont really get to see people around my own age, i go to the pubs with people who are 20+ years old, and i mean, ive got no intentions of bringing a 20 year old girl back because as soon as i tell her my age, well, you know (also im with my brother all the time and most the girls i meet are long term friends of his, which also wouldnt make it easy). And im finding it difficult to get the old me back and just go out to places where people my own age is and go on the pull. So basicly, what can i do to give myself the stimulation to wanna go out n get a girlfriend? i mean yeh i do want one, because in a way ive got a lot of love to give and really enjoy relationships, but i just dont have that fire where i say, yea im gonna go to that party and pick a girl up. I just dont have the spark to wanna do that anymore, because of my last few relationships and the life im living now (being around older people). I know its not really a question with any blatently obvious adivse to give, but any would be apretiated. Thanks for the time
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (30 December 2006):
 the thing is with life age isnt an issue no more unless you want to make it one..the problem you have now is that youre feeling down after each blow of a relationship going wrong that youre begining to feel whats the point!! I tell you i ask myself that everyday why do i get my heart broken, because if you can find that love youre on top of the world..just because one shoe does not fit does not mean you wont find one, just be patient and dont put all youre love into to quickly give it time. as for wanting to do youre own age group i say yeah you think you should do that because its youre age gap doesnt mean you want to do that, also being around older people can make u a little wiser to things and make you have a different outlook..
dont give up hun xx
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