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anonymous
writes:I have met him 10 years ago, he is my first love. We dated back in 1998, then we split up bcoz he was seen with a girl while I was away studying abroad. Then we dated again briefly in 2000, and went out again for several months in 2005. The last time we were splitting up, I told him that we cannot go on like this forever and if he is a player and is not into stability, then I am, and he can be sure I will not want to see him if he ever comes back. Now he is back again, he says he loves me and wants to be with me. I have to be honest - I really truly love him. But I am afraid that if I accept him, he will never change and I will be hurt again. I know he was seeing someone else during the time we were apart, and I am jealous like hell, and do not want him to go back to her. At the same time I want to preserve my dignity and do not want him to know he can go round and round and come and leave whenever he wants. I am a 25 year old Leo and he is 28 years old Libra. Please advise what should I do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2007): its a roll of the dice, i think that if you really think he can be faithfull and commit then you should maybe talk to him about the situation, just be honest with him, hopefully he will respect what you have to say,and if he really does want to be with you like he says he does he should be willing to do that that,if not and he says no hes not ready for that sort of relationship,at least youve saved yourself the heartbreak.
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