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I've kissed my manager's boyfriend... I'm in a tangle please help!

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Question - (26 June 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2006)
A female United States, *ess18maine writes:

When I read some of the posts on here, I wonder how do some of these people find themselve in these crazy situations. Like affair with boss', or drunken kiss's with your bestfreinds, or girls getting with theres friend man. Now I have come to find out. I deffinatly had the crazyest night in my life saturday night. I'm not a whore and I have never cheat on a one of my boyfreinds. I believe in the once a cheater always a cheater. I'm not the kind of person that gets out much I work 24/7 and have the most beautiful puppy in the world and hate to leave him alone. So my mom was watching my puppy. This is the fourth night in his 8 months of living that I have left him for the night.

Getting on to the point... i work at a place where there are about 5 mangaers. one of them being a girl I grew up with in school, we use to be childhood freinds... she was the girl my mom let me go alone to the movies with for the first time... we felt like big kids. I moved away and then moved back my senior year... we talked in school and at work... but not really freinds we didnt hang out or ne thing. she became a manager at the place we work, so now she is above me. onw day all of us girls at work desided to go out to the moives one night and this manager of mine brought her b/f. one hell of a boyfreind he was. I felt attracted to him and we got alone well... we joked through out the moive and had fun.. the moive was of we all went to our own homes... he comes into work and sees her and says hi to me and we have a strange connection. they were fighting... one night when he cam ein because he was out with the guys and did not anwser his phone... and she was complaing to me about it. then he comes into work and she asked where he was and they began to fight and he drove off... then they move in together like 3 days later. about a week after this I was in town with my lil sister and we saw him at a stop light. I rolled my window down and we talked... then the light turned green... he squeeled off around the cornner and i followed. We drove like teenages for about 5 minutes chasing eachother! then he pulled over at a store and I stopped too... we stood in the parking lot talking about ne thing and everything (SEX) we were in that parking lot for over... 2 hrs. he asked me to go back to his new apartment... i asked how it was working out he said wanna come see it! I said I dont think i should be at ur place with out her (my manager) He said its no big deal... we kinda dropped it he was touchie and feeling in the parking lot... and eventually i said well i got to get going and if were seen here then she'll nut. he hugged me and said some nice things an we parted. after about 20 mintues of being in town... i saw him 3 times again... (SMALL TOWN) it was like we were driving around looking 4 eachother. I drove by his apartment like twice only know where it was because my manager told me about its location. the second time i drove by I saw his truck and so i beeped. and my lil siser screamed out his name and he said what he was watching the road! so i turned around its a dead end and drove back by and he was out at the road and came over to my car when i was at the stop sign. he then told me to pull in his drive way b/c a car was cumming; so i did... we talked for the rest of the night or untill his g/f got outta work... it was my night off. i left like 5 mintues before she got home.. he like ur fine ue fine dont worry... i was like no i got to go i had been saying that for the last hour. she even called him while i was there in his yard talking with him... that was a little odd.. ne ways i never went up to his apartment but i did get away with the best kiss of my life. THE BEST ONE EVER. I can't get this man out of my head he is all i have thought about for the past two days... i cant wait to go to work just to see him by chance. I also got his number but i dont dare to call given that she might be around. also he has mine and he had texed me twice... and he asked for my number. so thats the jist of it all... i'm wondering what your all thinking about this guy and my manager and I!!!! I have never been in this situation ever! this is not the kind of person i am... should i feel bad that i kissed her b/f, were not even freinds really? plus he kissed me too... its was a two way kiss no doubt about it... okay i'm done sorry about the novel...

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A female reader, Tinkz South Africa +, writes (27 June 2006):

Tinkz agony auntYes it's wrong to kiss a man that belongs to someone else, but it happened and believe me i know what those types of kisses can do! a kiss when you want more but you ashamed every time the thought crosses your mind. but you young and energetic. But he anititated the kiss and you tried to prevent it. the way i see it you live once and all the things you go through are for a reason, maybe you ended up kissing to give you a sudden rush in life, boost your social habits. There are a lot of men out thats kisses should be illegal, because it's kisses like those that get women like us in big trouble!

I't not a train smash, just try not to do it again(someone elses man)but never forget you can never have to much fun!

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A female reader, Tinkz South Africa +, writes (27 June 2006):

Tinkz agony auntYes it's wrong to kiss a man that belongs to someone else, but it happened and believe me i know what those types of kisses can do! a kiss when you want more but you ashamed every time the thought crosses your mind. but you young and energetic. But he anititated the kiss and you tried to prevent it. the way i see it you live once and all the things you go through are for a reason, maybe you ended up kissing to give you a sudden rush in life, boost your social habits. There are a lot of men out thats kisses should be illegal, because it's kisses like those that get women like us in big trouble!

I't not a train smash, just try not to do it again(someone elses man)but never forget you can never have to much fun!

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