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30-35,
*osie
writes:I really am so down. I need help , well advice me and my girlfriend have an amazing relationship. Really. We love each otherNow the problem is she has an over emosional big sister and a really agrivated brother. So when she does something no matter how small they forbid me to come visit on the aranged day. and we already only see each other once a week and every weekend. Now the cherry on the cake is now my father forced me to work with him today and i was suppose to go to her. So i had to cancel. Then when we finished i wanted to go again the afternoon. But my father got a breakdown on his work and I had to cancel again. On top of all this she and her mom and her sister had a huge argument THIS AFTERNOON. aND i am scared. I don't want to loos THE ONE. She is my everything. How can 'n fix the hurt in her heart?. I love her . and she loves me.How do i fix her heart and how do I make her feel good again??. Because I am scared it seems too much for her and she dumps... me... ????PLEASE HELP I really need it. I don't know what to do. PLeas
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2011):
 Your very welcome.
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reader, oosie +, writes (24 April 2011):
oosie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 April 2011):
Talk to her brother, but do not do it infront of his mum. You are an adult and I am assuming he is aswell. So talk to him privately and ask him why he has made this story up. Be reasonable with him and tell him that you are trying your hardest to please his sister and make her happy and that you do not appreciate him telling lies about you.
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reader, oosie +, writes (23 April 2011):
oosie is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx. aND HER BROTHER. he has acused me of cursing his older sister's name. And i DIDN'T . I mean I can't hit my girlfriend's brother. Shoeld I confront him in front of his mother? Becase I think she feels sad because she feels her family ain't behind her. I really love this girl and I want to fix the problems .Wich seem to be a lot. But I love her. Must i have like a confrince between her family and me? to fix everything or will that make things worse
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (23 April 2011):
I am really sorry that I dont have a better answer for you but am afraid that you cant fix her. Most of her problems are coming from her over protective family who seem to run her life for her. She needs to take control of her life and stick up to her family. I am assuming that she is on the shy side and wont talk back to her family. They dont have the right to tell her that she cannot see you just because they are having problems.If she loves you she will understand why you had to cancel. But thats not the problem here. The problem is that her family is in the way and it is causing her stress. Talk to her be open to her and tell her how you feel. Goodluck.
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